Well what makes it so?
I've often thought that the worst thing about it, is the 'being cheated on' part. The way it would make some one feel. So, its the getting caught then? Which although its said the truth always outs, believe me, i know of many a case when people cheat (sometimes repeatedly) without ever being found out. Still, i'm a firm believer in not intentionally hurting another persons feelings, but say for arguments sake, you were absolutely certain that the other person would never find out and therefore never get hurt, then is the act of cheating in itself, really all that bad an action? Seeing as it obviously must provide pleasure of some kind for those involved.
I know this may seem like a double standard, so lets ask the question....
How would i like it if i was being cheated on?
Would i like it? No. Clearly.
But, if i really didnt know about it, and so therefore the idea of another woman with 'him' was never really a thing to worry about (Or so i thought), then what is the problem?
He gets me, and this mystery woman/women, without any hassle, and i, indeed am able to get away with
"getting off with that fit lad from oceana last week"
Makes sense really.
I've often thought that the worst thing about it, is the 'being cheated on' part. The way it would make some one feel. So, its the getting caught then? Which although its said the truth always outs, believe me, i know of many a case when people cheat (sometimes repeatedly) without ever being found out. Still, i'm a firm believer in not intentionally hurting another persons feelings, but say for arguments sake, you were absolutely certain that the other person would never find out and therefore never get hurt, then is the act of cheating in itself, really all that bad an action? Seeing as it obviously must provide pleasure of some kind for those involved.
I know this may seem like a double standard, so lets ask the question....
How would i like it if i was being cheated on?
Would i like it? No. Clearly.
But, if i really didnt know about it, and so therefore the idea of another woman with 'him' was never really a thing to worry about (Or so i thought), then what is the problem?
He gets me, and this mystery woman/women, without any hassle, and i, indeed am able to get away with
"getting off with that fit lad from oceana last week"
Makes sense really.
This article i read on the internet suggests that infidelity is actually a natural thing and that true monogomy is rare. As animals, we are genetically inclined to stray......so for all you cheaters, there's your excuse. You were just born that way
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